So yeah, I know. But look! 40's and upper 30's??? |
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Follow me as I learn to navigate life as a single mom of two kids. Starting over at the ripe age of 42. Here we go!
So yeah, I know. But look! 40's and upper 30's??? |
If you live anywhere near me, you'll know that we're known for some crazy weather.
Dead of winter and in the teens one week.
And then the next?
54 degrees and sunny.
In February.
Let me just say, we ALL needed it.
I've had a rough couple of weeks - work has been stressful and LIFE has been stressful.
What's new?
Anyway.
I had several meetings scheduled for today.
I hide in my upstairs office and crank throughout the day while Steve and the girls do school and other activities, depending on the day and what we have going on.
So I got a little excited when the one meeting I had scheduled for the afternoon was postponed!
Fuck yeah.
I took that opportunity to take my lunch hour (around 1:30) to go for a quick walk with the family.
It was gorgeous out.
And SO FUCKING BRIGHT.
Literally could not open my eyes. |
"Watch us jump, mom!" |
Crazy kids jumping off the deck into the snow |
When you've got a friend by your side... |
Getting ready is so much effort! I was sweating at the end. |
Bella is not one to like this weather. |
Ava is loving all this snow! |
The tunnel Mila built. |
Since I was a little kid, I've always wanted a dog.
It was a hard "no" from my parents.
We have allergies.
My sister has severe asthma (and is considered "medically fragile")
But when I turned 8 years old, they allowed the family to get a little white poodle.
No shedding.
Small.
He lived for almost 18 years and was my Snerbs.
I knew that when I was older and more able, I wanted dogs.
We had Shelby and Hudson as DINKS and they were our world.
We always knew we were dog people and we strongly believe in kids growing up with pets.
It teaches them empathy.
It teaches them responsibility. To a certain extent.
It teaches them to care for someone other than themselves.
So we're dog people and will likely always have dogs in our life.
Don't get me wrong. I vacuum 3 times a day - at least.
I'm constantly sweeping floors and trying to keep the dog hair and dander from being like EVERYWHERE.
But it's still worth it. Our house is full.
Full of love.
Full of noise.
Full of kids and dogs running and playing.
And still full of fucking dog hair.
Miss Ava Mae. I can't with her little face. |
Mug, fuzzy slippers and Mila's favorite - a sleep mask! Looking really old these days, my baby. |
My girls have never really gotten into gaming.
Neither Steve nor myself are really into it, so it's not like it's a huge surprise.
My kids love all things screens and TVs and all that jazz, so I guess I figured they'd like video games as well.
They've played our Wii a handful of times and they appear to enjoy it.
Ava is still too little and her coordination isn't quite there so she gets frustrated easily and quickly if she loses.
Mila does pretty well considering she doesn't have much practice. She really loves it, but it's easy to love something when you win all the time (and ergo, Ava is pissed a lot).
So they came to me the other day and asked to play a video game I had never heard of. Steve mentioned that it was a game our nieces play. It's called "Among Us" - I looked into it a bit and it seemed innocent enough. Honestly, if my nieces are playing and my SIL is cool with it, I'd likely be cool with it too. I may do a little investigating to see if there's anything to be concerned about.
Anyway.
We got them hooked up so they could play alongside their cousins!
I don't mind if they are playing video games like this. I can't recall the name, but it appeared that they had to make their way out of a room somehow.
Hand-eye coordination skillz people!
FaceTiming and playing with cousins! When they live across the country, we make do with what we can! |
Have to bundle up this time of year |
I'm glad I have my tall Muck Boots |
Steve made a path with the plow from our garage to the coop. |
It's kind of a far walk. |
Getting closer... |
Here's the short cut from our fenced-in area and sliding doors. I asked Steve to plow this path for me so I can make the shorter trek. |
Heavy ass water needs to be carried all the way to the coop. |
Through 2 feet of snow. |
It's no secret that Steve has not stopped working during the entire pandemic.
Well, except for that one time he had back surgery.
Anyway.
He's considered "essential" since you know, he keeps trucks and other vehicles on the roads safely.
People need their cars.
Organizations and businesses need their vehicles.
Hours were shortened during the "worst" of it (April/May) although we've seen worse numbers and they've been operating under normal work hours for months now.
Masks are required for anyone going into the shop.
We were super strict in the beginning.
Steve changed his clothes outside and then ran to the shower before he'd hug any of us.
But then as things went on, we relaxed.
We kept up with mask-wearing of course, we're not stupid.
We wash our hands all the time.
I sanitize everything.
I rarely take the girls grocery shopping with me.
We only visit with our "quarantine circle" which includes my mom and sister and Steve's parents.
And then today we got a call from Steve's work.
A guy he'd been working with (Thursday, Friday, and Saturday) tested positive.
Ok.
I wouldn't be super concerned, except for the fact that I brought the girls to the shop to visit on Saturday.
Because it was so dead there.
FUCK FUCK FUCK.
Obviously now I regret it.
We weren't around him for more than 5-10 minutes...maybe. We were there in totality for about an hour. He came around our area a couple of times.
We wore masks the entire time.
BUT.
I'm all freaked out and not sure what we should do.
Steve says there's nothing to do because the Health Department would call us if we need to be contacted for contact tracing. We haven't been contacted yet.
We are going to stay away from our elderly parents for 10 days just to be safe.
But do I have to contact school? I haven't been told one way or another.
I don't want to panic. But hello! 3 out of the 4 of us have some form of asthma/allergies and really can't afford to have any sort of respiratory issues. And my SISTER? Who is MEDICALLY FRAGILE?
Nope, nope, nope.
A friend posted something recently on Facebook asking friends what they missed the most since everything with the Pandemic happened.
That got me thinking.
I haven't spent a lot of time thinking about the things we're missing out on. I'm not sure why.
We have been distracted by a few major, life-changing events.
Regardless it got me thinking.
And Steve said it to me just the other day when we were driving.
"I miss going out to dinner and a movie"
YEP.
ME TOO, BUDDY. ME TOO.
We realized that as soon as my mom moved home (and ergo had a free babysitter), everything in the world (seriously) shut down.
So while the girls spend quite a bit of time with my mom, it's not like me and Steve have anywhere to go.
Here's a short list of things I'm missing, now that we're approaching the 1 year mark of when Life Stopped Being Normal.
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